People in
long-lasting marriages know less about their partners than people in shorter
relationships, says a new research.
It is
found that couples married for an average of 40 years know less about one
others food, movie and kitchen-design preferences than do partners who have
been married or in committed relationships for a year or two.
Understanding
and knowing your partner is important as it can be.
Here are some tips on understanding a
husband.
·
Men
tend to get aggressive and angry faster than women. This is because their
hypothalamus is larger than that of women. As a result of which when provoked,
the hypothalamus heightens rage, hunger desire and thirst.
·
Men
are for more upset than their woman counterparts, if their wives have betrayed
them. Just the thought of their wives sleeping with someone else can drive them
mad and make them very violent.
·
Men
feel worth living when they have something to drive them, to challenge them.
They see themselves more as independent achievers.
·
Men
most five basic requirements from a marriage are- Sexual fulfillment,
Companionship, Attractive Spouse, Admiration and Domestic Support. Men feel
incompetent when women offer them help. They like receiving help, only when
they ask for it.
·
Most
wives know and respect the husband as head of the house but we as wives have
important roles to fulfill in the marriage as well. With understanding your
wife and her needs you can't go wrong.
Here are some instructions on
understanding your wife.
·
Understanding
your wife is to slow down. Think about her and her needs in general what does
she want? What are her Goals? How well do you know the lady you married? Sit
down, forget about you. Draw from her all of her goals, aspirations, desires
and dreams. When she is talking, make eye contact, smile or even touch her.
·
Listen
to what she says. So many times men are so busy on the computer, watching
movies or even working on something at the house. Take the time to stop what
you are doing. When talking doesn’t just blurt out anything in response, but
say something worthwhile and meaningful or even tell her to let you think about
it. Always watch your tone and manner.
·
Understanding
your mate is to live with integrity, honor and respect. This means even when
your spouse is not around. Remember, what you do will come back to you. It can
come back in many forms shapes and situations. It’s important that couple keep
the marriage bed undefiled.
Source: telugu-news
Posts
